Wednesday, November 01, 2006

Dear Leo

It's been 10 days since you were taken from us and things have not gotten much easier. If I were to describe how much we miss you, I would certainly be understating it. Anna and Nina are helping us a lot with trying to go on. They know you aren't here with us anymore, but keep us going. Maybe they know much more than anyone even imagines, meaning they know you're alright, so they aren't sad. In fact, when they see either of us sad they tell us to cheer up. In the evening of the day you took your last breath here, I told the girls that you no longer had any "owies." Since then, they don't ask where you are, which they always did when you in the hospital, and they don't say you have any owies. They must know more than we; they know you are in a better place now.

So many people came to say goodbye at your funeral last Wednesday. It was standing room only! Cantor Rob led a beautiul service and when he chanted the Psalms, it was as if King David, himself, was there to guide you through the valley of the shadow of death. At home, lots of people came from all over, brought food, and helped us mourn as well as celebrate your short life. After seven days, your shiva candle burnt-out today, so shiva is over. We went to the cemetery today with your Grandparents, my Aunt and Uncle, and Cousin Irina. We all miss you so very much...

Leo, you probably already know, but our on-line friends from Vancouver lost their precious daughter, Hannah, yesterday to the same monster as you. Show her the ropes; she seems like a really sweet girl. Yesterday was also Halloween. It was very sad without you. Remember last year? You were Batman, Anna was a spider, and Nina was a pumpkin. This year, Anna and Nina were Care Bears. Regardless, everyone feels your absence, even every room in our house seems to miss you.

We love you, Leo. Always have and always will.

3 Comments:

Blogger vgalvez said...

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11:30 PM  
Blogger vgalvez said...

Dear family,

I am so sorry for your loss. I also lost my son on April 1, 2006 to this horrible disease. Your son is in a better place now and know that you did everything possible for him. Though the pain will remain for some time know that your son is happy. The night after my son passed I had a vision of him with a bunch of children and he was jumping rope and was laughing just as he always did. I believe that was my sign that he is okay. Your family will remain in my prayers. God Bless!

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11:32 PM  
Blogger Irene - Denver said...

Hi guys-Your strength is trully inspirational.
I really like this poem, so wanted to post it on your site.

I’m Free

Don’t grieve for me, for now I’m free.
I’m following the path God laid for me.
I took his hand when I heard him call.
I turned my back and left it all.

I could not stay another day
To laugh, to love, to work or play
Tasks left undone must stay that way
I found that place at the close of day

If my parting has left a void
Then fill it with remembered joy.
A friendship shared, a laugh, a kiss
Ah yes, these things, I too will miss.

Be not burdened with times of sorrow.
I wish you the sunshine of tomorrow.
My life’s been good, I savored much.
Good friends, good times, a loved ones touch.

Perhaps my time seemed all to brief;
Don’t lengthen it now with undue grief.
Lift up your heart and share with me.
God wanted me now, he set me free.

Author unknown.

1:49 PM  

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